HUMP! Festival

NO SAFEWORD PODCAST with guest Dan Savage

Our resident sex advice podcaster and columnist and fellow kinkster Dan Savage returns to share his insight and funny thoughts on a variety of topics. He even answers some of the letters our listeners sent to the crew, all from the top of his head. He has a hard time concentrating when handed the controls of a dick stroking machine running on a sexy naked boy tied up on the bondage table while we recorded, too. Lots of laughs and advice in this one!

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NO SAFEWORD PODCAST with guest Dan Savage

Our resident sex advice podcaster and columnist and fellow kinkster Dan Savage returns to share his insight and funny thoughts on a variety of topics. He even answers some of the letters our listeners sent to the crew, all from the top of his head. He has a hard time concentrating when handed the controls of a dick stroking machine running on a sexy naked boy tied up on the bondage table while we recorded, too. Lots of laughs and advice in this one!

CLICK HERE to download the podcasts.

NO SAFEWORD PODCAST with Dan Savage

Our resident sex advice podcaster and columnist and fellow kinkster Dan Savage returns to share his insight and funny thoughts on a variety of topics. He even answers some of the letters our listeners sent to the crew, all from the top of his head. He has a hard time concentrating when handed the controls of a dick stroking machine running on a sexy naked boy tied up on the bondage table while we recorded, too. Lots of laughs and advice in this one!

Part One

Part Two

Savage Love: Dehumanizing the Kinky Gymnast

“This is going to sound like bragging, but my appearance is intrinsic to my kink. I’m a gay male gymnast. Most of the guys on my college team are annoyed by the kind of objectification we routinely come in for. (We actually don’t want to be auctioned off at yet another sorority fundraiser, thanks.) But I’ve always been turned on by the thought of being a piece of meat. I’ve masturbated for years about dehumanization. Being in bondage, hooded, and gagged—not a person anymore, faceless, nude, on display, completely helpless….”

Read the full article HERE

Puppy Play discussed by Dan Savage

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August 13, 2014

by DAN SAVAGE

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I’m a 25-year-old gay male into puppy play. About a year ago, I joined a pack with one Sir and several puppies. I became very close to one of my “pup bros” and became his alpha—meaning between the two of us, I’m more Dom but still sub to our Sir. Fast-forward nine months, and the pack has fallen apart. My pup bro, let’s call him Fido, breaks up with his vanilla-but-open-relationship boyfriend. Having such a close bond with Fido, and already being sexual, I bring up the idea of dating. He is unsure. A bit later, he tells me: “I love you, but I’m not ready for a commitment.” But a couple weeks later, he tells me that a Dom on the opposite coast wants to collar him. I’ve talked with the Dom and don’t particularly get along with him, but I have tried to respect their connection. But now it seems like Fido is using this Dom the same way he used his past relationships—as a way to avoid dealing with his own stuff. Now he’s started pulling away from me, saying that certain things (sex and cuddles) with me feel too much like “boyfriends.” His Dom also doesn’t trust me because he thinks I have feelings for Fido. (I never said I didn’t.) To really make me feel like shit, Fido’s Scruff profile says he’s looking “ideally for a guy to cuddle with, laugh with, spend adventures with,” i.e., everything we used to do. Am I deluding myself? I thought this was a “not yet” situation. Pensive Upset Puppy

Read Dan Savage’s response over at

THE STRANGER

HUMP Tour in Chicago

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Since 2005 the HUMP! Erotic Film Festival has challenged ordinary people from all over the Pacific Northwest to become temporary, weekend porn stars-by making their very own five-minute dirty movies for a chance to win big cash prizes! And they did not disappoint! The resulting short films run the gamut of sexual styles: straight, gay, lesbian, transgender… every color in the sexual rainbow… and some we never knew existed.

HUMP! films are funny, thought-provoking, sad, artistic, outrageous, and almost overwhelmingly sexy-because they’re real. And they’re real because they were created and performed by sex-positive people, just like YOU. That’s why we’re bringing the very best of HUMP! to Chicago!

See 15 of the hottest HUMP films in action… they’ll make you laugh, squeal, and marvel at the broad (and creative) range of human sexuality. It’s HUMP! Tour 2014! And you’re going to have a blast.

TICKETS

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Dan Savage on the NO SAFEWORD Podcast

This was one of my favorite episodes of the NO SAFEWORD Podcast.   Informative, funny and you’ll even learn a few new catch phrases. Check it out.

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Sidebar No safeword podcastEpisode 43 & 44 – American Savage Part 1 (2 Parts)

by  on SEPTEMBER 2, 2013

When we asked Dan Savage (sex advice columnist, activist, author, podcaster) to join us on the show we were floored when he said yes! He joined us for our regular Friday night recording to do a 2 hour show. We talked to him about how he first got started with his column as well as his new book! (Find Dan’s Book, American Savage, on Amazon)

His book talks about Faith, Sex, Love and Politics, so we came up questions about each one of those topics to pose to Dan. And in Part 2 we will have some questions from listeners who wanted to ask Dan some advice question.

You can find his podcast, The Savage Lovecast, at: http://www.savagelovecast.com/

We also get a chance to talk to him about the It Gets Better Project, which you can find out more about by going to: http://www.itgetsbetter.org/

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