I bought this transparent latex catsuit from Libidex a year ago or so. I used their sizing chart and got a XL. It was too big. Sold it. I’ve been meaning to purchase it again in a large because it was funnnnn!
I spent quite a bit of time tied down like this. It was a very dreamy experience.
Part of a series of photos I did with photographer Adam Kozik back in 2005 when we had first moved to Chicago. Look at that little twink! LOL!
Just ran across this older photo from San Francisco around July 2012. I’m the boy in the Leather Straitjacket. Another version of the photo in my blog banner above.
It had been a VERY long time since I had done a public scene like this. I had a bad experience with a inattentive Bondage Top about 12 years ago. That experience sort of damaged my ability to trust others with total control over me in a public setting such as this. Yet, I still craved this sort of fun years later. Some fantasies just don’t go away.
Time goes by fast and so do opportunities like this. “Up Your Alley” Fair (Dore Alley) was approaching and I knew this Leather Top that would be attending the event. He was (is) a close friend that I trust and thought “worst that could happen is that he’d decline”. Man, it was still difficult to type out the question! After getting my dorky nervous message… he replied “It would be my pleasure to have this experience with you”. 🙂
That day came and I sort of expected myself to back out but he was great with taking control by making solid plans on when to meet and what to wear. It all happened so naturally and we had a great time. This day was very special to me and will always be one of my favorite moments as a Leatherman. Not just because it was a hot scene with an even hotter friend in full BLUF Gear (WOOF!)… but, because I pushed past the hurt and got to live out a fantasy once again.
BOOP!
Demo area at #MIR23 pic.twitter.com/1zofDmKj1L
— Ruff's Stuff Blog @ MAL (@RuffsStuffBlog) November 16, 2019
Puppies at #MIR23 pic.twitter.com/4CdE0VajTO
— Ruff's Stuff Blog @ MAL (@RuffsStuffBlog) November 16, 2019
I recently found these photos on an old RUBBERZONE gallery that I had forgotten about! Some of my first rubber. The Rubber Chaps were from Mr S Leather. Man, I miss those!
This was before going out to a Chicago Rubbermen party back in 2007. That’s our first Chicago apartment. My partner and I had just moved to Chicago. We were so excited to be a part of the Chicago Leather Community at the time.
Here’s a Throw Back Thursday photo of myself at Dore Alley Fair 2014.
This photo reminds me of an important life lesson I “re-learned” that summer. You see, I had a crush on these two guys for a long while. They knew it, too. When we talked, my mind sort of fogged over. This happens when I am really into someone including the image/role that they’re portraying (“Totes Dom Top”) and the hot gear they are wearing. I got nervous and awkward around the 2 hot men flirting with me at the street fair as we drank warm beer…. freezing up several times in mid conversation. DERP!
I’ve done this all my life. I call it the “Peter Parker meets Mary Jane” syndrome. You remember that scene from Spider-man, right?
Right at 00:25
But, the lesson I re-learned… for like… the billionth time that summer? Sometimes, especially at kinky street fairs, S&M can just stand for… “Stand and Model”. Despite the flirting, they weren’t really into me. They just wanted the attention and enjoyed leading me on because it made them feel and look good to others. I mean, the fair was closing and I still had not been ordered to lick any boots nor were plans made for later (despite hinting)! Wake up, Ruff!
I still look back and laugh at this experience. My pooooor widdle heart was broken that day! Awwww… Poor Ruffy. (Don’t worry, I got over it) . This photo is a favorite because it reminds me to be realistic. To remember that some guys are just there to “Stand and Model”.
….You know, looking back, it also really didn’t help that Daddy Richard had me in chastity for 2 weeks prior to that day at Dore Alley Fair….
:-O
Here are a few photos of Bondage legend Derek Pain from the BOUND GODS booth at IML 2010. I found these while going through an old hard drive.
You can see more of Derek Pain HERE.
I know it’s going to sound like the Daddy in me is speaking but I wanted to share something special.
To me, one of the most rewarding things as a Leatherman is when I have the privilege of being of a part of a friend’s growth into a happier person… or Puppy.
During MAL 2019, @BlueEyes85_ (on IG) tried on my Leather Puppy Hood (and then again later). Once it was on, I could see in his beautiful eyes that something had clicked.
After MAL, he told me how it impacted him. A sense of euphoria and calmness came to him reliving a weekend scene he had many years ago. He immediately started designing his own CUSTOM Leather Puppy Hood. I ordered him (he likes orders and protocol) to wait until his big bonus came in. During facetime, I gave him permission and much encouragement to start his Puppy journey.
Mr S Leather said it would take up to a month for him to get his Hood (and “WOOFY Tail”) but… surprise surprise… it arrived in a week! We then facetimed again for the big Puppy reveal. The screenshot is the first time he saw himself in his custom hood. He’s slept in it two nights in a row now.
He is SO happy with his purchase which in returns makes me very happy. It’s also got me tossing around the idea of getting a hood myself (I tasked him with designing one for me).
Now @BlueEyes85_ (on IG) just needs a Pup name.
If you have a kinky Instagram account, you can follow him on HERE.
Forgot about this. I made this gif a year or so ago for my SIRS wearing the Holy Trainer they ordered me into before a visit.
This is a photo of me in a barber chair having a forced haircut scene. Does anyone remember the old “Shared Web” fetish sites? Rubbermen, Buzzed Hard and others? Apparently “Buzzed Hard” got a copy of it and used it on their site. I just found it on Tumblr.
Sometimes we have a very bad scene that makes us not want to play for a long while. That’s the story behind this photo. My limits were not respected (in many ways) and I had the shit scared out of me by two others. Painfully held against my will.
I look at this old photo and remember how important communication between players is. Before the visit, I told one of them “I want to be mind fucked” but what I really meant was “I want to be controlled in a strict SIR/boy experience”. “Mind Fucked” was the wrong choice of words. Very strong words the top should have questioned but didn’t. Which led to him not respecting my wishes for the scene to stop even when I said I couldn’t feel my hands. He also made a fake call to my partner. “He says to do what I want”. That broke me.
I didn’t play for 8 months. We lost a friend from this experience.
So, now, like… 15 years later… I look back at this photo now as a traumatic lesson that I’ve learned from and put into practice when I bottom OR top. Communication is key to a great D/s experience. I no longer just go into a scene without discussing it first.
When the boy I played with at MAL told me that he wanted a long weekend of “Strict Protocol” and role playing… I didn’t just say “OK”. We talked in detail about what that involved so that we were clear. I made him give me examples of the kind of protocol and control he wanted. Talking in detail about the scenes we both wanted made my 21st MAL one of the most memorable.
I can’t wait to see that boy again.
Out of the 7-8 Chastity Devices I’ve tried, this device is by far the most comfortable one for long term use. I’ll post another photo before my visit to my SIRS on Thursday.
Throwback Thursday photo of when I geared up in full Rubber Puppy gear and chastity for a photoshoot at Mr S Leather. Loved that Latex Catsuit so much that I bought it that same day. But, that’s almost always the case with gear we try on, isn’t it?
On a recent long weekend visit to my SIRS I was given some alone time while they both went to work. During that alone time, I had the task of conditioning and shining 8 leather hoods and 6 leather jackets. Several of them were heavy Langlitz Leather jackets. It all had to be done by the time they got home. I finished sooner than I thought I would I was rather pleased with myself so I sent them this happy photo.
#TBT… 2010. Trying on one of Mr S Leather’s first Leather Puppy Hoods. They’ve removed the zipper since then and you can even customize the colors of the hood you want!
1 more shot in my new “HERO” Suit & Jockstrap with Cod Piece by @RegulationLTD . Very pleased with it. LINK: https://t.co/nsuC5siU7c pic.twitter.com/6btsfzPvGL
— Ruff’s Stuff Blog (@RuffsStuffBlog) December 13, 2017
I’m very happy with my purchase of the “HERO” Suit and Jockstrap with Cod Piece from Regulation. Holds my Holy Trainer in nicely, too.
When you get home after being in the VIP Secrion at a Kylie Minogie concert.
(See tweet comment) pic.twitter.com/Y8CCUJtBzW
— Ruff’s Stuff Blog (@RuffsStuffBlog) September 28, 2018
Yours truly has a little cameo in this video.
MORE HERE
Thank you, San Francisco, for another sexy #UpYourAlley Fair only made sexier with my “bk.pup” . More photos and video to follow. #dorealley #dorealleyfair #upyouralley #upyouralleyfair pic.twitter.com/9Yztxt1qQl
— Ruff's Stuff Blog (@RuffsStuffBlog) July 31, 2018
