There certainly are a forms of BDSM that are best experienced by yourself before you tie a boy down a ZAP away. Electro is a favorite of mine. I tell people that there is Electro Toy for everyone. One person likes the Butt Plugs, the next likes the Cock attachments. Experiment and see what you like. If you don’t like the first thing you try, there are dozens of other options. Including Ball Crushers that tickle your balls while they’re being pressed down upon.