LOL!– “But, I’m a Top!”

I got a big laugh out of the comic below.   It remind me of a demo at Mr S Leather during MAL 2012 earlier this year.  “The Imp” and I had put this very confident, masculine, bearded and furry guy into a Neoprene Sleepsack after quite a bit of convincing.    He got ROCK HARD instantly and stayed that way nearly an hour eventually getting off.


But, as he was about to Cum, he yells… 

“BUT, I’M A TOP!!”

Credit to Pup Emry for the drawing that will become infamous in the Kink Community.
That was my favorite moment of MAL this year.  I later chatted with the guy online (“Scruff” app of all places) where he told me he was always under the impression that it was demeaning for a Top to have bottom interests.  That it’s something he should hide away from all boys as they wouldn’t take him seriously.  He now thinks that Mentality (Old Guard?) is total Bull Shit.  I agree.  

Never limit yourself to experiences.  You don’t know what you’re missing. Fuck what others think.



SIDENOTE: I do believe that’s an Irish Wolfhound, Richard.  It’s another sign…

The Asylum Mask

Asylum Mask - Upper Half



Speaking from experience (in the photo above), the Asylum Mask is a fantastic blindfold that is put on very quickly (and removed even quicker when needed) that can help a boy go into his headspace while still having use of his mouth.  Since the mouth is exposed, it also helps the Top since he can read the boy’s facial expressions, too.   Another reason why it’s popular in BDSM Porn


One more quality about the Asylum Mask that I enjoy is that sometimes during a heavy Flogging scene, I can get VERY HOT (temperature wise) in my upper body and head area.   A half mask like this prevents a scene from ending too soon since more skin is exposed.  You can also drip or pat down the boy’s head with water.