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Category Archives: Ruff Thoughts
It’s a Science. It works.
I’ve been asked, quite a bit, about my Work Out Routine and the Supplements I take. Friends visiting for Lollapalooza laughed while pointing out all my supplements saying “You have a Problem”. Very funny, Dog boy Dan.
Someday, I’ll get around to sharing my Routine and discuss each supplement. It’s… complex. But, it works! For now, here’s a photo of what I take, cautiously, … 7 Days a Week.
Gay Veteran talks to Mitt Romney – ABC News
I typically stray away from anything Political on my Blog as it’s quite the Boner Killer. But, this is rather powerful to watch. Check out Romney’s “OH FUCK” look on his face when he figures out the Veteran he’s anxious to talk to is Gay.
“Governor, we need to get on with Fox News right now…”. Nice save, Asshole.
“I’m Batman…”
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| This shirt always collects sweat in odd formations. Each time I wear it, it’s different. |
RANT: Personal Space Invader
Why do Assholes think that just because a shirt is off (or even on) that it’s an Open Invitation to do shit like this or tickle, bite, lick, grab, poke to people… and keep doing it when the other person has made it clear this is not their idea of a good time?
In what world are they living that it’s socially acceptable to disrespectfully invade someone’s personal space?
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some one who has no sense of personal space and sticks their stupid face really close to yo whilst talking, even though you may not know them very well.
chap 1) met the new guy, dude?
dude 1) yeah, bit of a personal space invader, huh? all leaning in and breathing on me. Freak. |
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Ruffy Bottomed! WOW! (It’d been a long while)
Below is a message I got from my SIR in NYC yesterday as well as some photos from our last play session earlier this month. He’s a good story teller… and player.
“SIR’s boots clunk down the steps and He sees it stir slightly. Pecker gag removed and SIR’s boots inserted instead. it’s on it’s side with one boot in its mouth and the other on the side of it’s neck to make sure it doesn’t stop sucking the boot properly…just a tough sticking out of a rubber muscle mass waiting for something else to suck on…but then Nah! SIR isn’t in the rewarding mood quite yet….boot is pulled away, water dish placed somewhere …maybe in reach…maybe not. But there is a straw somewhere on the ground that if it can’t find water close enough, that maybe the straw will reach the bowl. SIR tells the shitbag to drink….and laughs in amusement while it searches for the H2O…
It is told it has 5 minutes to find it and drink it all or else….the foot steps go back up the stairs and the door slammed shut…”
Kept just 7 hours like this. Longer imprisonment with each visit.
CLAW review by “WolvesPerv”
Check out a great review of “WolvesPerv’s” experience at CLAW this year. Kicking myself for not making it to this event, yet again due to work.
Click on his HERE to see the review.
LOL!– “But, I’m a Top!”
I got a big laugh out of the comic below. It remind me of a demo at Mr S Leather during MAL 2012 earlier this year. “The Imp” and I had put this very confident, masculine, bearded and furry guy into a Neoprene Sleepsack after quite a bit of convincing. He got ROCK HARD instantly and stayed that way nearly an hour eventually getting off.
But, as he was about to Cum, he yells…
“BUT, I’M A TOP!!”
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| Credit to Pup Emry for the drawing that will become infamous in the Kink Community. |
That was my favorite moment of MAL this year. I later chatted with the guy online (“Scruff” app of all places) where he told me he was always under the impression that it was demeaning for a Top to have bottom interests. That it’s something he should hide away from all boys as they wouldn’t take him seriously. He now thinks that Mentality (Old Guard?) is total Bull Shit. I agree.
Never limit yourself to experiences. You don’t know what you’re missing. Fuck what others think.
SIDENOTE: I do believe that’s an Irish Wolfhound, Richard. It’s another sign…
LOL!: This is soooo me….
An All Time Favorite
Wow, this older photo brings back memories. While, I’m not into the Skin Head look (to each their own, I like Hair), I remember falling for the Latex Codpiece Pants when I first saw this photo. This was a great influence to me and my growing interest in Rubber and Latex. It was fun to run across this photo and look back at where I started with my Fetish … with some Mr S Leather Rubber Shorts I bought in a sex shop in Las Vegas.
Which I STILL have and wear 15 years later.
What’s interesting is that I also remember this photo sparking my interest for wide faced belt buckles.
Lollapalooza 2012
Decided to go with a 3 Day Pass as my friends are doing the same. This is the first year that the non-headlining acts are whom my friends and I are more interested in seeing. In particular, Calvin Harris, Kaskade, Justice, Avicci, Nero… and…. Dev.
The Eyes have it…
This is a photo of a very, very handsome and sexy boy by the name of “BondagesubNYC” that I play with on visits to the big apple. Since, I didn’t have either of my nice cameras that normally I use during scenes and events, I snapped this photo with my iPhone. I swear, some of the nicest and most beautiful photos can come from a simple camera.
Doesn’t he have the most beautiful eyes peering out of that hood?
(Yes, I fixed the Gag afterwards, Bitches.)
This was a special night as this was the only the 2nd time the boy had worn his Mr S Latex Catsuit. I helped him pick one out online nearly a year ago. He said he wanted as long as he could for me to be there to put it on. This was very flattering. Such a sweet, mature and sincere boy. Qualities that seem very rare in boys at times. He’s perfect in so many ways.
To begin the night, I had him simply lay on the bed enjoying the Full Coverage (and Chastity for 10 days) while I Geared up and then started to polish his encapsulated body. We played for 3 very sweaty hours.
Texts from my SIR…
“Well boy… know that the word “MASTER” will be repeated here with or without MY cock down it’s throat. it had a moist Dream? Moist is about as good as it will get since it will be fully caged in MY presence at all times. Fully rubbered at all times. Fully hooded at all times. it’s MASTER gets moist knowing that”.
FOR SALE: Bose MIE2i Mobile Headset
WOOF OF THE DAY… and Why
This Guy is my “WOOF OF THE DAY”. Why? Because, of the obvious WOOFY reasons… but also because relate to him.
I had a lot of Transformers as a kid (I mean… A LOT). Easy to say I had just about a full collection (Fuck you, “Go-Bots”! TF wannabes!) that filled my room. Family would complain that I had so many that they didn’t know what to get as gifts. BUT- for whatever reason, I never got an original “Optimus Prime”.
I love the look of Joy on this guy’s face. It reminds me (and hopefully you) that it really is still okay to be a Big Kid at heart.
LOVE This Shirt…
I find the whole “He’s muscular. I bet he’s dumb as a brick” assumption to be pretty fucking funny. I wish I could find this shirt. I haven’t been able to located it.
Have you seen it anywhere? Give me a shout if so.
Help Me Decide?
So, I haven’t done any Gear Shopping in about a year…. and I’m being very indecisive about what I should get with the sizable Tax Return I’m getting this year.
What it comes down to is… should I go for the Big Ticket Item that everyone always seems to want (myself included)… a LEATHER SLEEPSACK….
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Should I go for multiple Wish List items like Steel Bondage, Steel Chastity, New Leather Shirt, Electro Toys, etc? (More Examples HERE)
Which makes things more difficult to decide is that I already have a Latex Sleepsack. Do I really need another in a different material? Plus… could get a Neoprene Sleepsack AND misc gear.
Decisions!
I put up a Poll on the right of your screen. I welcome any input.
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Neoprene Sleepsack?
Leather Sleepsack?
WISHLIST: Combination Irons
Someday I’ll own this. The Standard Combination Irons. It’d look fucking hot with a Latex Catsuit… Thick Rubber Hood… Steel Chastity… Remote Ten’s Unit…. and so on.
Wrist Irons fixed to neck by 12″ chain, which in turn is connected to a 33″ long chain to the ankle irons, all welded solid! Lock his hands in back if he gives you any trouble!
Neck collar circumference measures approximately 16″ inches, Wrist manacle circumference approximately 7.5″ inches and Ankle manacle circumference approximately 10.5″ inches with a Collar to Ankle chain length of 40″ inches and ankle chain at 13″ inches length.
The inside circumference of the collar is 16.5″, cuffs 7.5″ and ankles 11.5″. The entire combination with chain weighs 7 pounds.
Rubber Sleepsack Fun
Speaking from Experience (see below), there’s nothing like a good exhausting work out trying to get out of a Sleepsack. Much like in the videos below.
Yes, that’s me testing out a Neoprene Sleepsack Prototype 3 years ago. I was told “Go Ahead. Just try to break out of it”. I exhausted myself after 30 minutes… and took a good hour nap in the Sleepsack.
You can see more photos by clicking on the photo.
Euphoric.
Perfection
Sometimes they just don’t get it…
You know what really annoys me? When I’m contacted by somebody online that has a very vague (or empty) profile with a photo of just their chest. Or a Nipple. And then have a load of questions for ME when I’m the one with the completed profile.
Really. Please, take the time to fill out a profile so we don’t have to play the “20 Questions” game. Bottom line is…
Don’t play games. You are not going to be taken seriously online
any Networking website without a completed profile and photos.
I had this situation happen earlier tonight with a guy in the Chicago suburbs. To add a layer to it, he searched for me on other websites, too. And didn’t have a finished profile on those either.
I shared this story with buddies at Sidetrack tonight where they all seemed to share the same frustration. One in particular shared a conversation he had with a Mystery Man on the Scruff App last week. Thought it was pretty funny. Granted, the buddy is a real Smart Ass.
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“Any plans to complete your profile?” A face pic maybe?”
“I’m an open book. Ask me any question.”
“Okay, then… What’s your PIN number?”.
“8787. Do you have more pics? I’m looking for a Top”
“Is that Bank of America? Do you have other pics? Not interested in talking to your Nipple.”
“Yes, B.O.A.. I’ll send another photo”
*Sends another photo. Two nipples and no face this time*
“Hello? Do you like?”
“Hey, man, no offense but nobody’s going to take you seriously without a completed profile and face pics.”
“I’m selective of whom I share personal information with.”
RUFF THOUGHTS: MAL 2012 Photos
I didn’t take a whole lot of photos with my own camera this year as I was doing Demos (hands were busy) but here’s a few to share.
They wanted to touch my Latex Shirt. Which turned into a cuddlefest. As I was leaving the other said “Girrrrrrl, can you see my legs in material like that?”. Yes.
Marc Sherkness – Carcione, Mr PW’s Leather 2012 and MAL 2012 Runner Up.
A “STARGATE” reference was heard many times that weekend.
International Miss Leather, Sara Vines, is fucking hilarious and very sweet. Loved her.
Visiting SIR in New Jersey
A few photos from a rare occasion of me bottoming. Many thanks to SIR for sending this. What a great night. Woof. 🙂
The Leather Identity Project
The Leather Identity Project . Check this out. The results are going to be very interesting.
Also, Keep in mind that the word “LEATHER” encompasses all forms of kink and lifestyle including Rubber, Sports Gear, etc. So, yes… even you in the Raccoon Mascot (furry outfit)… your opinion is of value to the Project!
RUFF THOUGHTS: “Wait… How do you bottom again?”
I’m sitting here… in Chastity… with a Plug up my Ass…
… waiting for my long time SIR (and good friend) from NJ to pick me up for a play date that’ll end fairly late tonight.
I’m blogging now, of all times, as a encouraging “No Send Letter” to myself.
You see, Ruff… you don’t bottom enough. You have bottomed 3 times in the last 4 times in the last 3 years. Twice to your Daddy, once to a excellent Rope Top and lastly, once to the SIR who’s about to pick you up. Each time you’re with your Daddy, he says the same thing to you. “You need to let yourself be the boy that you know you are”. And he’s right. You hold yourself back.
The reasons are as good as they are lame. Yes, it’s very hard to find Tops who have the experience and gear that you have. Agreed, the bottoms always outnumber the Tops in any city including the home of IML and MIR. But, you could make more effort to travel to the cities of the Tops you’re interested in. Much like you have today.
Yes, Trust is a huge issue. You had that really bad scene in Atlanta that has made you overly cautious when it comes to bottoming. Including to people you think you have a good understanding of. But, that bad “limits not respected” scene happened over ten years ago. You’ve certainly educated enough “Newbies” on how to communicate their interests as well as even how to pick up on the signs of a untrustworthy Top. Shouldn’t you be following your own lessons by now?
Hold up. Close your eyes for a second. Feel that? That’s a Butt Plug. Feels amazing, doesn’t it? The last time you had anything up your Ass was the emergency room Doctor cheerfully telling you “You’re not constipated. It’s just Appendicitis” just days after you had one of (if not THE) fucking of your life. The (aggressive) Anal Sex and Appendicitis you had are completely unrelated so you need to stop relating the week in the hospital and month at home to fun penetration. Even though you hate the mess and the wretched “Fuck Farts” that follow afterwards. Deal with it. It’s worth it. You love it, ya Butt Whore Wanna Be.
Lastly… hey… where’d your Dick go?? Yup, you’re in Chastity. Remember that phrase you used to say when you wore chastity in the past? “There’s an incredible sense of Freedom when you are locked in Chastity”. And, it’s true. The submissive headspace you’re in right now is possible because of the Chastity. (Not to mention the Plug up your ass pressing on your prostate). You… are not in Control. Feels amazing, doesn’t it? To let go…
The other thing about Chastity is that we both know the longer you are kept from Orgasm, the longer you get to be in this Euphoric submissive Headspace. And… the longer you are kept from Orgasm. The stronger the release (reward) is. You love this. You’ve been “behaving” for 5 days now. Enjoy yourself.
So, yeah, that’s your SIR who just texted you saying he’s 10 minutes away. Grab your gear bag and go enjoy some bottom time for a change. Like you said when you started Topping 10+ yrs ago… “Variety is the Spice of Life'”.
Go enjoy yourself, boy.
With love,
-Ruff