It is valid to be anxious around someone who has traumatized you. It is equally valid to be anxious around people who support them after you’ve spoken up.

— Nate Postlethwait (@nate_postlethwt) October 23, 2023

Being a Dom, play can be exhausting sometimes. Constantly making decisions and thinking about what to do throughout the scene.

One of the nicest things about subbing for me is being able to put it all aside and mentally relax without needing to think, just mindlessly playing.

— MisterJ (@MisterJNY) October 16, 2023