Working Out the Kinks
August 27, 2014
by DAN SAVAGE

My boyfriend of two years cannot climax or maintain an erection unless his testicles are handled, squeezed, pulled, or pressed on (preferably with my stockinged foot or knee). Needless to say, intercourse does not work very well, and our sexual repertoire is rather limited, which is frustrating for both of us. His doctor says his ED is not physiological. I’ve read your advice on “death grip” masturbation and suspect it’s a variation of that. I would love to try to “rewire” him; we have started trying to conceive, so we need him to ejaculate successfully at least a few times per cycle (to increase our chances but also for sperm health). We are in our mid-30s, so I don’t want to wait months for him to increase his sensitivity. What would you suggest?

Almost Resigned To A Turkey Baster

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THE STRANGER

Cock and Ball Play Toys

Imagine your boy on Christmas Day, wondering why his stocking is so awkwardly weighted.    Much like when he’ll wear the Locking Ball Weights under his Jockstrap later.  The weight reminding him of you.