CHICAGO: Fireside Chat with Joey McDonald

Screen Shot 2014-01-15 at 6.00.25 AM.pngCome hear Chicago’s own Joey McDonald live-on-stage! Kicking off the 2014 Center’s Fireside Chat series Joey McDonald will be interviewed live-on-stage. Chat host Douglas OKeeffe will talk with Joey about his community history, his life history, ad his community work. Following the formal interview the floor will open for audience questions. Come hear a slice of Chicago history! The Chats are free as a public service. A $5 donation to the Center on Halsted at the door, to cover its expenses, is appreciated.

Wednesday Jan 29th 7:30pm

Facebook Event Page (with Directions)

* This is a Fireside Chat that I’m really looking forward to.  Our history as Gay Leathermen (& women) is something that always moves me.  Joey’s also a sweetheart with a great sense of humor. I hope he doesn’t hold back any.

Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend 2014

MAL 2014

A few early-birds will trickle into DC this Wednesday when the faintest scent of leather accoutrement and cock rings are detected by curiously aroused TSA agents.  Traveler destination: DCA, IAD and BWI for MAL.  On Thursday, more early-birds arrive and it will be impossible to miss or ignore the palatable energy that signals the approaching countdown and commencement of 2014 Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend.  Finally, on Friday, January 17, the lobby of the Hyatt Regency Capitol Hill will teem with both MAL veterans – those who have attended the event for a number of years – and several hundred MAL virgins who by all accounts are filled with (I can see you shiver with antici — “say it!”….pation.  #MAL2014 emails, tweets and Facebook posts confirm #MAL2014 is a source of much excitement and chatter among many weekend virgins and most striking are the sheer volume of questions about the event itself.  “Where to go?  What to do?  Who to do?”  Not surprisingly, cadres of selfless, noble MAL veterans have placed themselves front and center responding to a large percentage of virgin inquiries.  Moreover, weekend veterans exemplify the altruistic nature of the leather community that is again proven unparalleled.  It is expected that over the next few days MAL veterans will increase all efforts that serve to confirm that for every single virgin in attendance, there are a minimum of two experienced hands waiting to welcome him, or her.   It is worth noting that friendly couples are in many cases, offering more than the minimum.

If you have not yet purchased a full MAL Weekend package, you may still do so, but only at the Hyatt Regency Capitol Hill on Friday, January 17 and only until 7pm that same evening.  The full package permits access to the leather exhibit hall; Saturday evening’s Leather Cocktails; Sunday brunch, Mr. MAL Contest; the official MAL Weekend closing party at 9:30 Club, Reaction Dance; and weekend shuttle service between Green Lantern, DC Eagle and 9:30 Club during published shuttle service times.  Separate day passes are also being sold – however, Leather Cocktails, Brunch and shuttle bus access are only included in the FULL package purchase.   Seasoned MAL attendees advise that you do your homework and go to www.leatherweekend.com for detailed information about everything from A – Z.  There is also a Weekend FAQS page at http://www.leatherweekend.com/faqs/
Q: Is there a dress code for Leather Cocktails?
A:  Indeed there is.  In maintaining the time-honored tradition of Leather Cocktails, we request that you dress in your best formal leather, boots, jeans, etc.  NO BARE CHESTS AND NO EXPOSED BUTTOCKS WILL BE PERMITTED IN LEATHER COCKTAILS.  Individuals baring chests and buttocks will be denied access to Leather Cocktails.  For more information about the origin and tradition of Leather Cocktails please visit our history page. In addition, the menu for Leather Cocktails has been leaked (by us so we’re fine with it) and may be viewed at http://www.leatherweekend.com/leather-cocktails-menu/
REACTION Dance: 3 DJs, 3 Levels, 3 Day Weekend
 
DJ tim ē (Tim Morse) has been added to the REACTION roster and will provide music in the Backbar at 9:30 Club.   DJ tim ē has been electrifying DC dance floors since 2006 spinning his own style of HiNRG pop, diva anthems and tribal beats.  He has performed at CHERRY here in DC opening for DJ Abel and Market Days at the Cellblock in Chicago; while also spinning several DC Capital Pride events. His weekly residency for the last 5 years is at Secrets (DC) where his INFERNO parties are always sizzling HOT!  Timmy has played most dance venues in DC: Town, Cobalt, Green Lantern, Apex, Nellie’s, and Motley bar. Look up DJ tim ē on Facebook.
Purchase REACTION tickets at http://ticketf.ly/195QUrl and in person at the 9:30 Club and Adam and Eve located off Dupont Circle in Washington, DC.  REACTION tickets will also be sold at the Centaur MC store during MAL Weekend and are included in the full MAL Weekend package.
Join our Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend page on Facebook www.facebook.com/groups/MALWeekend/
 
Remember to visit www.leatherweekend.com
 
Follow us on Twitter @CentaurMC.  We look forward to seeing you in a few days!!

BLUF CHICAGO: Mr. Chicago Leather 2014 Cigar Social

BLUF CHI

BLUF Chicago is pleased to join the weekend festivities of Mr. Chicago Leather.
 
Join us Sunday January 26, 2014 from 7:00pm to 10pm for our first cigar party
of 2014!
 
For This all male after-hours event at Blue Havana the doors will be locked and no regular customers will be in the shop for our private, cigar event.
Blue Havana has been known for years as the place to go for the gay community to enjoy the best cigars and pipes at the best prices. The welcoming staff has hosted parties for the gay and pansexual community for 7 years, including the IML Cigar Party.
Cost: always free! (donations accepted) But we encourage you to purchase something from the host establishment.
Location: 856 W. Belmont Ave. Metered street parking is usually available. It is also just a half block East of the Belmont Red Line stop.
Dress code: Leather uniform, other (military, fire, police, rubber) uniform, motorcycle leather or other G-rated fetish wear (store is video monitored and there are no curtains) leather encouraged.
Important: You must be 19 years of age or older, and you must have a valid state issued ID on you while in the shop.
RSVP is highly recommended (limited to 75 people) for this event.
Send your Name, name of guest(s), BLUF number (if applicable) to :
Subject: RSVP Cigar Night
BLUF membership is not required for this event but membership is encouraged. Ask a BLUF team member how to join.

2014 Mr. Twin Cities Leather WEEKEND!

Friday Feb. 14th
-8:00pm Meet and Greet
-9:30pm Contestant Introductions/Drawing for Contestant Order
-9:45pm Raffle Drawing (Event Packages Product)
-10:00pm Black & Red Ball (Valentine’s Day)

Saturday Feb. 15th
-2:00pm until 5:00pm Kink U (More details to come!!!!)
-8:00pm Contest
-10:00pm Victory Ball

Sunday Feb. 16th
-12:00pm until 4:30pm Brunch/Hands on Rope Class
-4:30pm until 8:00pm Beer Bust/Travel Fund Fundraiser
-10:00pm until 2:00am Rubber/Kink Shower Contest

FACEBOOK EVENT PAGE

RUFF THOUGHTS: “Dealing with Emotional Vampires”

giphyWe all have lessons in life that have to be experienced repeatedly to finally learn from.  One of mine has been dealing with Emotional Vampires.   When people “dump” their day’s issues on you without so much as a “Hello, how are you today?” (huge pet peeve) …or … what I find is very common in the Kink World, people that are unsupportive (or “Judgey”) of your sex life and even your sexual comfort levels in comparison to theirs.  For example, I’m not a huge fan of Orgies where there’s just sex going on. Just not my thing. But, I do enjoy BDSM related Play Parties.  I’ve gotten some negative feedback from less kinky people saying they’re the same.   I agree (to a point) but still not my thing. Why try to make me feel hypocritical because I’m not interested in your Orgy?

Maybe they really think my kind of party is possibly more fun?  Or maybe they’re not getting invited to either kind?   Who knows.  But, it’s not worth letting anyone make you feel  hypocritical or like you are missing out.

Do what YOU are comfortable with pushing boundaries when YOU are ready.  

Below is a quick article that spawned my thoughts today. I don’t agree with the author’s thoughts on quickly writing off negative people without having attempted a mature conversation first… in most cases.   Choose your battles wisely.  There will ALWAYS be another Orgy or BDSM themed Play Party.

-Ruff

The care and feeding (and shunning) of vampires

Vampires, of course, feed on something that we desperately need but also can’t imagine being a source of food.

You have metaphorical vampires in your life. These are people that feed on negativity, on shooting down ideas and most of all, on extinguishing your desire to make things better.

Why would someone do that? Why would they rush to respond to a heartfelt and generous blog post with a snide comment about a typo in the third line? Why would they go out of their way to fold their arms, make a grimace and destroy any hope you had for changing the status quo?

Vampires cannot be cured. They cannot be taught, they cannot learn the error of their ways. Most of all, vampires will never understand how much damage they’re doing to you and your work. Pity the vampires, they are doomed to this life.

Your garlic is simple: shun them. Delete their email, turn off comments, don’t read your one-star reviews. Don’t attend meetings where they show up. Don’t buy into the false expectation that in an organizational democracy, every voice matters. Every voice doesn’t matter–only the voices that move your idea forward, that make it better, that make you better, that make it more likely you will ship work that benefits your tribe.

It’s so tempting to evangelize to the vampires, to prove them wrong, to help them see how destructive they are. This is food for them, merely encouragement.

Shun the ones who feed on your failures.

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CLAW 14 Registration is now open!

CLAW 14 Registration Open

BUY NOW AND SAVE: The CLAW 14 PACKAGE is only $85 through December 31, 2013, a $14 savings. Starting January 1st the price will be $99.

Or register as a VOLUNTEER and get your CLAW 14 Package in exchange for 5 hours of time helping at the event!

The CLAW 14 PACKAGE includes ALL of the following:

  • At the Sheraton Hotel:
    • Access to CLAW 14 Leather VendorMart
    • Three Days of Great Silent Auctions
    • More than 40 Different Educational & Leather Skills Workshops
    • Showcase and Live Jock Auction
    • Puppy Mosh Pit and Puppy Pool Party
    • Special 1 hour performance by leather comedian John Pendal
    • Access to Hercules Ballroom play area (in basement of the Sheraton) all weekend long
    • Access to the Boots and Cigar Tent all weekend long
    • BDSM Art Show, and “Bound and Beautiful” Live Art
    • Leather Burlesque Bingo Party
    • Sunday Night Music and Comedy Review
  • CLAW Parties at Bars Around Cleveland (you won’t be asked for a $5 donation at each bar)
  • Transportation Pass to/from CLAW events and and all CLAW hotels, all weekend long
  • CLAW Merchandise (T-Shirt, Hankie, Run Pin, and more)

Optional Add-Ons for Your CLAW Package:

  • The International Leather Family Dinner, sponsored by Square Peg Toys, Saturday, 7-9pm in the Sheraton Ballroom ($65),
  • The Leather Hall of Fame Brunch, sponsored by International Mr. Leather, Sunday, 11 am – 1 pm in the Sheridan Ballroom ($35), and
  • RECON/REFLEX Dungeon Parties at FLEX Warehouse Dungeon, Thu-Fri-Sat night parties ($30/$55/$80)

CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO

CLAW 14 Registration Open

CONGRATS to Andy “Cosmic Roo”… Mr. International Rubber 17!!

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Andy CosmicRoo, Mr. Rubber Toronto, Wins Mr. International Rubber 17

Mr. Midwest Rubber Jesse is 1st runner-up

Mr. Fetish Leather Austria InTrouble is 2nd runner-up.

Isn’t he adorable?

What a fun weekend with a well deserved Rubberman chosen to represent the Rubber Community.  I’ve been watching Andy “Cosmic Roo” on his journey up to MIR on Instagram and Twitter for about a year now.  His enthusiasm, sense of humor and creativity making his own rubber gear was impressive and always made me smile.  While ALL of the contestants were fantastic, this Toronto Rubberman got my audience vote at the end of the night.   Absolutely thrilled he won.  You can follow and SUPPORT him during his year as MIR 17 at the links below.

Andy “Cosmic Roo”‘ Twitter Page

Andy “Cosmic Roo'” Facebook Page

I was lucky enough to be given a Press Pass for MIR weekend which I took advantage. Let’s just say I have my work cut out for me sorting through a great deal of sexy shiny photos.   Many are fun candid shots.  And, yes, there will be a “BULGE REPORT: MIR Edition.    I hope to share them here sometime this week.

Chicago Rubbermen at MIR 17 *THIS WEEKEND*

Chicago Rubbermen NEWMister International Rubber Weekend
We’re once again proud to be a sponsor for Mister International Rubber this year. We are happy to host the Friday night Meet & Greet on the third floor of the Center on Halsted starting at 7:00PM. We can’t wait to see all of the fun things in store for everyone at this year’s MIR 17: Karnival of Kink. Visit MIRubber.com for information about the weekend, events, ticket prices, kink market, and don’t forget to visit us at our annual Gear Sale!

Schedule of Events:
Friday Nov 8
Gear Market   : Noon – 7pm @ The Recreation Center in the The Center on Halsted
Meet & Greet : 7pm – 9pm @ The Reception Hall in the The Center on Halsted
MIR 17 part 1 : 9pm – 11pm @ The Theatre in the The Center on Halsted
Slick & twisted Rubber Play : 10pm – 4am @ Steamworks

Saturday Nov 9
Gear Market   : Noon – 7pm @ The Recreation Center in the The Center on Halsted
Puppy Mosh   : 3pm – 4pm @ The Recreation Center in the The Center on Halsted
PreCocktails   : 7pm – 9pm @ The Reception Hall in the The Center on Halsted
MIR 17 part 2 : 9pm @ The Theatre in the The Center on Halsted
MIR Strict Rubber dress code Victory Party: 10pm – 4am @ Steamworks
RECON Full Fetish Chicago : 10pm – 4am @ Jackhammer

Sunday Nov 10
Gear Market           : Noon – 5pm @ The Recreation Center in the The Center on Halsted
Movies & Mimosas : 1pm @ The Theatre in the The Center on Halsted
Lube Wrestling       : 2pm – 3pm @ The Recreation Center in the The Center on Halsted
Shiny Gear Tunes  : 5pm – 9pm @ Sidetrack

MIR Educational Classes (rooms TBA)
Friday Nov 8th
2pm-330pm
Inside the Kinksters Studio with Pup Snuggles
3:30p-5pm
Inside the Kinksters Studio with Rick Holte
Satuday Nov 9th
2pm-330pm
Inside the Kinksters Studio with Joe Allegretti
3:30p-5pm
Inside the Kinksters Studio with Trooper Long

Gear Sale at MIR
Got year you want to sell or want to buy gear on the cheap? Stop by on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday of MIR weekend (8-10 November) to shop, socialize, and get shined up! We help you tag, price, and sell your gear for cash (cash only). 10% of the price of each item sold goes to help the Chicago Rubbermen cover expenses and continue to support MIR and other shiny events around the country. Come by during the weekend and check out all that we have to offer – and maybe flirt some, too. 🙂 If you have more questions, feel free to shoot us an email and we’ll be happy to help you out!

Stay shiny, Rubbermen! Oh, and get excited because Pup Striker will be in town soon 😉